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I always dreaded going to women’s events.  Maybe it was my insecurities in connecting with other women, maybe it was the scrap booking time.  But, last year my friend told me about an amazing Women’s Conference she had gone to, and knowing how she also feels about women’s events, I thought, hmm…why not, I’ll give it a go.    

So, there I was the first night, sitting in my chair, thinking about how it had been 10 whole years since I had been at my last women’s event, yet I still remembered what a woman said to me.  She said she knew I had been held back by fear for a very long time and asked me when was I going to give all of that to God.  A challenging question coming from someone who knew me well was a bit jarring, and I knew I wanted to give it all to God, but I wasn’t quite sure how to do that.  When you’ve lived with something for so long, it’s often hard to shed it.  

Fast forward 10 years at our first night “response time” at the conference, where we were told we could walk down the middle aisle and put in an old suitcase something we had written on a piece of paper that represented something that had been holding us back or burdening us for a long time.  I found myself writing a word a few times in my journal – “fearless” – a deep desire I had, and I knew I had to make the first step and walk down the aisle. 

On the 2nd day of the conference, I was listening to a session on receiving a new name from God.  The speaker was talking about how God sometimes gives people new names; He did in the Bible – Jacob became Israel, and Saul became Paul, etc…  Also in Revelation 2:17 the author says God gives a white stone with a new name written on it.  Theologically I was taking all of this in for the first time; apparently there is a book out there about this sort of thing and sessions like this at other conferences, where many people are experiencing God giving them a new name.  I was soaking it all in, and something really powerful started to resonate with me; the concept of how we were all created in God’s image, but how we find ourselves being very far away from that original intention.  Along our journey, we’ve either fed ourselves lies about who we thought we were supposed to be in this world, or we were told lies by other people about who we were to be.  Either way, these lies seeped in and began to change us.   And yet God yearns to draw us back to Him, and for us to see ourselves the way He does. 

And at the end of her teaching she asked if any of us felt we had received a new name from God, and that it was something not to be taken lightly.  But that if indeed we felt God had given us a new name, we could walk to the front, take a white stone (chosen along the coast for this moment) and write down our new names on it.  

The next thing I knew, I opened my journal and saw the word I had written the first night…fearless, and that indeed was a new name God was giving me, a reality for me to know now, and to begin to walk in, and to be shaped by. 

And so the conference went on, and there I was, apparently now “fearless”.  As we approached our departure time from the conference, I was hoping to take with me everything I had learned, and I didn’t want to go back to my old habits when I got home.  Just before leaving though, a woman prayed that we would all have the courage to live in our new names.  

The day after I got home, I was determined to do things I had always been afraid to do.  I started creating art for the first time, and eventually took a painting class.  I still do not profess to being an artist, but I know I love to create, and I feel so much freer to do so!  I started being more bold in my friendships, especially those I felt insecure in before.  I started being bold in ministry, stepping out and doing things I would’ve questioned if I could do before.  I was reminded that God created me to be fearless and to serve him with boldness. 

This year at the conference, I went with an open heart, I felt like I was dripping with anticipation at how I might be changed by God!  This year the theme was HOPE, and I needed some hope.  The teaching focused on what biblical hope is, what are things that challenge our hope, what are the promises in the bible of who God is, and how can we maintain our hope!  I loved the concept of biblical hope being something we can hang our lives on, it isn’t the “wishy” kind of hope we use in language, “I hope it won’t rain today.”  Yet the hope we read about in the bible is firmly grounded in our faith of what we’ve seen God can and will do for God’s people, and built on the promises God has for us.  I took away with me that in dire circumstances, we cannot always change those circumstances, but we can focus on praising God in the midst of them, and what happens is not that our circumstances change, but that God changes who we are in them.  Beautiful.

Oh, and I actually went to the craft time!  I sat and knitted while other women created other beautiful things with their hands.  I decided to sit there and soak up the story of one particular woman, named Sue, who had just the morning before told me I reminded her of her daughter she had lost many years ago to cancer.  I loved hearing Sue’s story, how her mother was a dress maker, and how Sue won a contest when she was only 12 years old.  Sue came on the American team to lead women in a time of creativity.  As I knit she began to tell me story after story of the various dresses she’d made for various ladies.  I realized in that moment, how much God wanted to teach me about the power of story, about the stories of other women, about my own story, and how God is not only in each of these stories, but weaves us together by our stories.  Beautiful.  

As you face the last few months of this year and the beginning of a new one, I pray that those who read this listen to God’s voice.  God can bring newness to the areas in your lives in vibrant and unexpected ways!  Whether you struggle with fear, hopelessness, or other trying things, know that God has not given up on you, and that God can offer you a new name; a new perspective on life.  God makes beautiful things out of dust, and we need to let Him do that in our own lives.

As you can imagine I’m already looking forward to next year’s conference! 

It has been a long transition for all of us working in Poland. I can assure you, though, that the Holy Spirit has not been sitting around, waiting for something to happen! Let me bring you all up to date on several items that I know you are interested in:

                Our work is going forward, and the Sweet Surrender shop is doing well. It is a spiritual oasis for many people who have become our “regulars.” We have excellent Volunteers on hand; they are providing innovative and Spirit-led leadership. The Giles and Traceys are a wonderful gift for our work in Poznan. We continue to have the strong support of our local Sweet Surrender team, who have become skilled both in serving our coffee and dessert specialties, and in sharing what God is doing in their lives. Our primary needs in Poznan continue to be future volunteers coming over the next years as they are needed. Help us find these people and guide them into service with us! And pray with us that people will volunteer in the future, and that people will step up with the financial support they need to come. The Sweet Surrender shop and property is in need of updating and upgrading of equipment and furnishings. We’d love for you to join the Work & Witness Team that will be coming in the near future. See the information below.

               Our work in Krakow continues to develop:  the traffic to the shop continues to increase as people discover this delightful place to come and share a cup of coffee, a sweet, and some conversation that can lead them to trust in the Lord, developing a personal relationship with Him. We are so thankful for our Polish leadership in this Sweet Surrender ministry. They are faithful and capable and love God in generous measure. We have also had great volunteers in Krakow over the years, leading to the opening of the shop. We are praying for additional volunteers to come to this ministry. Pray the Lord of the harvest to send workers! God has graciously been helped this ministry meet its financial objectives, but the costs of this beautiful building still face us. We are praying that those who are able to give will support this growing work.

                The oldest of our Sweet Surrender shops is in Gdansk. Good people have supported this work through leadership, volunteers, and generous gifts. Although we prayed that the work would flourish and a strong shop and ministry would be established, it has not happened as we had hoped. We have not given up on this beautiful city and its wonderful people, but for the time being we have shifted our limited resources. We still own the Sweet Surrender shop and missionary apartment located nearby. While we are assessing our future ministry possibilities, we have relocated some of the coffee shop equipment to nearby Maalmo, Sweden, where a new shop is in its infancy. Our prayer is that the generous people who gave the finances for this equipment will know that it is not sitting idly. Look for news in the future about this new venture in Sweden. We are happy that the equipment is being used in this positive way. Pray with us as we make plans for the future for Gdansk and the grand re-opening some day of this Sweet Surrender shop. Thank God for those who have labored there over the years and, although we have not seen the fruit of our gifts and labor yet, we believe that our prayers may yet be answered in the years to come, God willing.

On a related note, you will be interested to know that there is a great article about the new Sweet Surrender Coffee Shop that has opened in Denmark. Go to:  www.eurasiaregion.org and click on  “Fields” and you will find a hot link to the article from their publication Eurasia Snapshots. The shop is beautiful, doing well, and along with the great people from the Greve Nazarene Church in Copenhagen, our own Katie Fitch has been instrumental in bring about this new outreach coffee shop. Katie was on the “ground floor” at both Poznan and Krakow Sweet Surrender shops. Congratulations to all who have worked and prayed and given and helped bring about the newest Sweet Surrender Coffee Shop. Let’s join them in praying for God to help them make good use of this great outreach opportunity.

Our great team of volunteers and the local staff of the Poznan Sweet Surrender Shop are very busy these days updating and upgrading equipment and facilities in the Poznan shop. I have asked them for a list of the most urgently needed things so that I can share them with you, our Poland Partners. We will have this list to send to you in the next two or three weeks. Our prayer is that you and/or others you may inspire in your local churches or circles of friends to help us finance these needs. We also hope you will take us up on the invitation to develop a Work & Witness team to come and work with us!

Thanks to you all for your prayers for Colleen and me and our boys during this transition from the CIS Field to Poland. It’s been great seeing many of you in our travels in recent months. We hope to see many more of you in the future, either here in Poland or when we once again have a Home Assignment. We couldn’t do the work we do without your prayers and your support for the fledgling work of the Church here in Poland. We are so excited to see what God will do in this great nation and with the resilient and faithful people here. God bless you all!